These are brief instructions about attending your court hearing. To learn more about going to court, watch the Going to Court video.
Bring to your court hearing an original plus two copies of any document you wish the court to consider when making a decision in your case.
Go to the hearing location on the scheduled day and time. Dress neatly. Arrive 10 or 15 minutes before your scheduled hearing time. Tell the clerk your name, that you are there for a hearing, and that you are representing yourself. Follow the clerk’s directions and do not interrupt any hearing in progress.
When your case is called, go where you’re directed. The other party will speak first because it’s their motion. Take notes when the other party talks. Don’t interrupt the other party. After the other party speaks, you will have a chance to talk. Taking notes will help you with this.
When it’s your turn to speak, be prepared to say the following things:
- Your name
- That you are representing yourself
- The facts or reasons for what you asked for in your response (bring any documents that support your facts)
- Why you believe this would be in the best interests of the child(ren)
- Whether you have witnesses in court who are willing to testify
Clearly and directly answer any questions the judge asks. If the judge wants to hear from your witnesses, ask them to tell the court what they know about the situation.
The judge could decide to:
- Grant the other party’s motion and enter an Order Regarding Parenting Time that changes parenting time
- Deny the motion and keep the existing Order Regarding Parenting Time in place
- Refer the motion to the Friend of the Court (FOC) for an investigation and/or recommendation about the request to change parenting time
In some counties, you may meet with the FOC first or have a hearing in front of a FOC referee instead of a judge. If the FOC makes a recommendation in your case, or if a referee makes a recommended order, the judge will consider it. Either type of recommendation can become a final order in your case, but you will have a chance to object to it before that can happen.
You will get a copy of the court order either at the time of the hearing or later.